How I'd like to be remembered when I die

At my memorial, I would like my friends to go up in front of those attending my memorial to say some words about me. They need to be the truth, not necessarily nice, and I want them to talk about the good and bad times we had.
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I like to be cremated and have my ashes discarded in the water off Kapas Island.
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I have yet to decide what songs should be played at my memorial.
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I would like to make it known that though I may not seem to have achieve much in the material world, I was happy doing what I did and if I had a choice, I would do it all over again. I have no regrets in meeting everyone I did in my life and I would meet them again if I had the chance.
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I would like to thank my friends and family for being the greatest pillar of strength for me in good and bad times. I deem some of my friends as my guardian angels as they watch closely over me and I appreciate every thought and advices. Even if they were only people I have met once or twice, the impact people have on me can linger for a long time.
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I'd like a memorial stone to be built in my memory in Italy (I've not decided where yet) and it should say "she seems emotionally unstable sometimes, but she was as good as it gets".
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I'll have a database of personal messages to my friends in my laptop that should be sent to them via email or even snail mail.
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And Damian, like it or not, you will need to be one of those who needs to attend my memorial and say something about me in front of everyone and it needs to be at least 100 words!!!